The European Parliament notes that infertility is a medical condition recognized by World Health Organization that can have severe effects such as depression; points out that infertility is on the increase and now occurs in about 15 % of couples; therefore calls on the Member States to ensure the right of couples to universal access to infertility treatment.
European Parliament resolution on the demographic future of Europe (2008)
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The SOS Infertility Association – full member of Fertility Europe!
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Between June 27th and June 30th, the SOS Infertility Association took part in the annual meeting of Fertility Europe, organized within the ESHRE Congress (European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology) in Rome.
Fertility Europe brings together all patient associations which have as main objective, activities related to (in)fertility, and both the full member organizations ( 11 organizations in 10 countries) and candidate–members ( 14 organizations in 12 countries) took part in the meetings.
At the meeting of the Fertility Europe Council, members established priorities for 2010- including the setting up of a project on infertility prevention and enlarging the “Special Families” campaign, and all the associations briefly presented their recent activities.
Another point on the agenda was the candidate members’ question and their welcoming into the association as full members and, by a show of hands, in an emotional moment full of applause, the SOS Infertility Association became a full member of Fertility Europe, joining this select group of representative associations which defend the rights of infertility patients in all European countries.
In conclusion, Fertility Europe consists of 25 full member organizations from 22 countries.
Mrs Ana Veiga, ESHRE’s Chairman elect (who is going to be second female president in the history of ESHRE, in 2011), gave an interesting presentation for the participants of the annual meeting of Fertility Europe, “New challenges on the IVF laboratories”, claiming that the goal of both parts involved in the human assisted reproduction, both the medical staff and the patients, is “the patient’s interest” , and the associations of patients are meant to facilitate the cooperation of those involved .
Fertility Europe also organized “ Patients Session”, included in the scientific programme of the ESHRE Congress, entitled “How patient friendly is patient friendly?, a session mediated by Clare Lewis-Jones, Chair Fertility Europe together with four other speakers whose presentations showed the patient’s point of view on how a “patient friendly” treatment should look like.
The ESHRE congress also hosted an exhibition area, where Fertility Europe had a presentation stand, a stand where, no more than 9000 participants – doctors and embryologists from all over the world – had the opportunity to watch European “Special Families”, including five Romanian families who sent their message of hope and optimism to the entire world.
The participation of our association – a non-profit organization which owes everything to its volunteers and has no financial support – at this huge event wouldn’t have been possible but for the generosity of ESHRE, Fertility Europe, the support of Blue Air and many other benefactors. We thank all of them and on this occasion, on behalf of thousands of infertile couples from Romania, whose interests must be represented and voiced.
Thus, we can conclude that the SOS Infertility Association took part in a fruitful meeting, officially joined the big family of European organizations of patients fighting infertility and will make its contribution to all the activities of Fertility Europe-wide; at the same time we will strengthen the importance of ethical and patient-centered approach for fertility problems at the national level and we will fight for legislation regarding human assisted reproduction in Romania, by respecting bioethical criteria as there is the case in the other European countries.
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Infertility is a medical condition! Having a child should not be a luxury!

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“SOS Infertility” Association – Activity Report statutory 2009
I. Coordinates and Statutory Stipulations
After having worked for about 18 months under the name of “initiative group”, the “SOS Infertility” Association has gained legal personality since October 19, 2009, by ruling of Bucharest Sector 1 Court, being recorded in the Registry of Associations and Foundations at no. 110/27-10-2009. The Association has a fiscal code – 26227202 and an International Bank Account Number – IBAN RO51RZBR00000600122, at Raiffeisen Bank, Unirea Agency. The Association‘s office is situated in Bucharest, Calea Floreasca no. 110, and the actions of the association are advertised on www.infertilitate.com.
According to its statute, the main purpose of the association is to carry out actions of communitarian and group interest, meant to contribute to the initiation of a legal framework regarding infertility and human assisted reproduction, advertising the matter of infertility and bringing it on the Romanian public agenda, general and financial support of the authorities for infertile couples, counseling of infertile couples, advocating civic values, family principles and of the rule of law.
The main target of the Association will be reached by accomplishing the following objectives:
1. initiation and improvement of legal framework regarding infertility and human assisted reproduction;
2. advertising the matter of infertility and the problems generated by it by taking action on radio, television, written media, online media, conferences, interviews, reports, meetings, symposia , etc;
3. fund raising for projects in the field of infertility;
4. assurance of psychological and/or special counseling for couples which demand support.
5. organizing partnerships, cooperation, experience exchanges , taking stands which are similar to other organizations ( government and non-governmental organizations) in the country or abroad in the area of interest of the Association;
6. gaining funds from state or private institutions in order to reach objectives stipulated in the statute
7. proceeding to direct economical activities or company foundation in view of fund raising to support the purpose of the association
8. authority support according to law and needs, in view of obtaining spaces for activities;
9. project outlining in cooperation with institutions, governmental and non-profit organizations for:
- controlling/limitation of couple infertility
- advertising and respecting the rights of child and family
- preparing families with fertility problems to become foster parents;
- increasing competencies and parental abilities.
II. Preliminary actions at political and media level
1. At political level, the main actions carried out by the “SOS Infertility” initiative group within the first year of existence have been:
- correspondence and meetings on regular basis with political figures who showed interest in the subject of infertility. The “SOS Infertility” initiative group has gained political support on the cause of infertility from the following MPs: Adrian Tutuianu, Alin Popoviciu, Anca Boagiu, Catalin Croitoru, Daniel Barbulescu, Daniel Geanta, Doina Silistru, Dumitru Oprea, Elena Mitrea, Ioan-Nelu Botis, Iulian Badescu, Iulian Urban, Luminita Iordache, Sever Voinescu, Sonia Draghici, Sulfina Barbu, Tudor Ciuhodaru, Valeriu Alecu, Victor Boiangiu;
- meetings on regular basis and support on the cause of infertility from dr. Cristian Irimie, State Secretary, Ministry of Health;
- meeting at the Cotroceni Palace with State Counselor of the Presidential Administration Bogdan Teodoriu Bujor, Head of Department for Social and Economic Policies and Presidential Advisor, and dr. Virgil Paunescu, Head of Department for Public Health within the same institution;
- the collective petition (which had acquired over 5.000 signatures by October 2009) has been sent to numerous national and international institutions: Romanian Presidency, Mr. Traian Basescu; Romanian Government, Prime Minister Emil Boc; General Secretariat of the Government; The Health and Social Compartment of the Prime Minister Chancellery; Ministry of Health, The National House for Health Insurance, Ministry of Labour, Family and Social Protection, Ministry of Youth and to the specialized commissions of the two chambers of the Parliament.
2. As for the media actions, the “Infertility is a medical condition” campaign has made itself seen, read and heard:
- on radio and television: impact shows (news, reportages, talk shows, debates, most of them on prime time) on ProTv, Tvr1, Antena1, Antena3, Realitatea TV, Radio Romania Actualitati, Deutsche Welle, B1TV, Europa FM, Radio France Internationale – RFI etc.
- on written media – articles in newspapers and periodicals, central or regional such as: Dilema Veche, Adevarul, Evenimentul Zilei, Curentul, Monitorul de Sibiu, Gazeta de Sud, Observator de Constanta, Foaia Transilvana, Monitorul de Suceava, Jurnalul National, Ziua, Viata Medicala, revista Tabu, Viata Medicala, etc.
- Online: realitatea.net, stirileprotv.ro, antena3.ro, europafm.ro, hotnews.ro, ziare.com, mediafax.ro, desprecopii.com, eva.ro, allpress.ro, babyonline.ro, atitudinea.ro, sanatateatv.ro, info-sanatate.ro, medicalmanager.ro, informatiamedicala.ro, sfatulmedicului.ro, newsreport.ro, severpress.ro, topsanatate.ro, superbebe.ro, infopro.ro, gandul.ro, romanialibera.ro etc.
A complete list of the media actions of this campaign, on categories (TV, radio, written media, online), with links towards these interventions can be accessed on our website, on “blogroll” rubric.
The “Infertility is a medical condition” campaign has been awarded the special prize for social responsibility concerning health within the Carol Davila Awards, 2009. The blog that mediates this campaign has had, in less than a year, more that 35 pages of articles, hundreds of commentaries and over 100.000 viewers. Our website has been one of the winners of Roblogfest 2009, in the “Best Collective Blog” category and “The Most Popular Blog” and was one of the finalists of Webstock Awards 2009 (in the “Company and Brand Blogs” category).
III. Recent Actions of the “SOS Infertility” Association (October 19, 2009- December 31, 2009)
Within the two and a half months of legal existence, the “SOS Infertility” Association has developed – under a minimal budget obtained from donations of members - actions of a strong impact, which we summarize in this activity report.
1 The legal constitution of the “SOS Infertility” Association coincided with an unprecedented moment in the history of human assisted reproduction in Romania: In October 2009, The Ministry of Public Health issues an order by which IVF treatments are forbidden in self-financing private or public clinics. The “SOS Infertility” Association reacts promptly (just a couple of hours since the publication of the order), gives a press release and officially protests against the Ministry of Health demanding urgent cancelation of this anomalous order. The press release issued by the “SOS Infertility” Association is largely taken over by the Romanian media, which brings the subject of infertility on the foreground of the public eye. Among numerous publications in the written and online media ( links are provided on our website), the representatives of the “SOS Infertility” Association, have given audio-video interviews, the association being advertised by means of radio and television news such as : Radio Romania Actualitati, Radio France Internationale, Antena 3, Antena 1, Televiziunea Romana and Pro TV, in prime time ( recordings are available on our website). The Minister of Health announces publicly that the order is a complete error and that the human assisted reproduction procedures may continue as earlier.
2. As a consequence of the media turmoil and official protests, after a few days the Press Department of the Ministry of Health issues a press release by which it announces the initiation of a pilot program that has as purpose the state support of the necessary costs for IVF procedures for a total of 250 young, infertile couples, in 2010.
Prof Dr. Adrian Streinu-Cercel, State Secretary in the Ministry of Health states: “It is time infertility was admitted by the authorities as a medical condition that causes pain and requires compensation. Romanian patients should also have free access to medical treatments that have proved effective. Today, we had a meeting with the representatives of the Obstetrics and Gynecology Committee within the Ministry of Health and we decided it is necessary that future national programs of the Ministry of Health, should include a plan to help young couples”.
According to preliminary declarations of the Ministry of Health, the pilot program will mainly include, couples aged 25 to 40, waiting for other criteria to be established by the members of the Obstetrics and Gynecology Committee. According to the initiative, the Ministry of Health will financially support the first IVF procedure. If the procedure needs repeating, the costs will be paid by the couples. The budget of the new program is estimated to € 500 000 annually.
As a result, the “SOS Infertility” Association sends a new press release in which it states: “Regarding the new decision of the Ministry of Health to financially support an IVF attempt, this is salutary. However, what raises a question is the number – “250 couples, aged 25 to 40”. Although the Association understands the budgetary restrictions, it considers the number discriminatory and arbitrary. Knowing that all the members of the infertile couples are contributors to the health insurance system, in our view, it is very difficult to find criteria which will not transform this restriction to 250 couples into a discriminatory measure, which violates the principle of equal access to medical treatment for Romanian citizens. The “SOS Infertility” Association is looking forward to the criteria which will be drawn up by the Obstetrics and Gynecology Committee of the Ministry of Health, for IVF financing and there will be reactions as such.
3. Consequently, the Ministry of Health announces the initiation of a law project in relation to Human Assisted Reproduction and Embryology, established “as a result of a real public concern regarding the implications that the new technologies of assisted reproduction might have on public awareness and valuation of human existence and family relationships.” During the public debate of this law project, the “SOS Infertility” Association, after careful lecturing and legal counseling, reacted officially, sending to the Ministry of Health, notices about the substance and form of this law project ( this material has already been posted on our website).
These new actions cause a new media storm, of which we can mention a fifteen minute interview on Radio Bucharest, news reports of Antena 1 and ProTV, on prime time, with the representatives of the Association (recordings are available on our website), as well as a full page dedicated to the subject of infertility by the “Dilema Veche” magazine.
4. On October 27, 2009 actions at national level took place on the National Infertility Day – during which, doctors, patients and journalists gathered together to speak about an ever existing problem, which had not been sufficiently publicized in Romania: infertility.
This event was organized by the Association of Embryologists AER (chairwoman dr. Diana Cocei, Honorary Chairman prof. dr. Bogdan Marinescu) in cooperation with doctors in cities like Bucharest, Iasi, Timisoara, Brasov, Constanta and Craiova. The “SOS Infertility” Association gathered together and took part in actions in Craiova, Brasov, Iasi and Bucharest. In terms of logistics, personalized portfolios have been printed, brochures of the activities, CDs with informative content, business cards – the expenses being secured from donations of the founding members that constituted the first patrimony of the Association.
Following the Infertility National Day, the representatives of the “SOS Infertility” Association are present again in the news reports of Antena 1, and TVR, and on prime time (recordings are available on the website).
5. The week before the final tour of presidential elections in Romania, the “SOS Infertility” Association addressed a question via the Institute of Public Policies (IPP), the organizer of the candidates’ debate, to the two candidates who were running for presidency, Mr. Mircea Geoana and Traian Basescu: “Romania is facing a serious demographic crisis. There are predictions according to which, if the actual fertility level is preserved, Romania will reach 16,7 million inhabitants in 2050 and 11,9 million inhabitants in 2070. At the same time, statistics of the World Health Organization show that at European level about 15% of the couples of reproductive age are facing fertility problems, they cannot obtain or maintain pregnancy. In all European Union countries there are consistent public policies which encourage the birth rate by supporting infertile couples – in Romania there aren’t any. What are you going to do, as future president of Romania, for this population segment (one couple out of six), how will you support infertile couples in their fight to have a child?”
The question did not have the chance to be part of the three questions randomly extracted to which the candidates answered, but the campaign staff of the two, prepared answers to this question, thus, the “SOS Infertility” Association brought the problem on the political agenda at the highest level.
6. In December, 2009, the “SOS Infertility” Association signed its first official contract with Health Media Group, becoming partner at the National Conference of Patients, event of great impact which will take place in Bucharest between 11-13 March, 2010. At the same time, on December 3, 2009, the “SOS Infertility” Association took part in the Health Gala organized by Sanatatea TV.
7. In addition to these event- like activities, “front office”, the “SOS Infertility” Association has continued the administrative activity, its “back office” activity, less visible, but not of minor importance: the finalization of the constitutive process of the association (getting a fiscal code, registration with the Registry of Associations and Foundations, opening a bank account, stamps, meetings in view of allocating responsibilities, generating adhesions and involving new members, etc.), updating the website, maintaining the micro community on the forum, offering counseling via email to people suffering from infertility , updating databases, maintaining contacts with partners , joining new events, etc.
Thus, we are referring to a project begun in 2009 which will continue in 2010: The “SOS Infertility” Association has put forward and has been officially invited to become a member of the prestigious “Fertility Europe”, the strongest Pan-European association of patients fighting infertility.
The “SOS Infertility” Association will continue millitating in order to obtain support from Romanian state for couples facing fertility problems and finance for the fertility treatments by the National Health Insurance Agency, as it is normal and as it happens all over the European Union.
The “SOS Infertility” Association
December 31, 2009
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Misconceptions and clichés about infertility
Motto:
“INFERTILITY IS A MEDICAL CONDITION THAT CAN BE TREATED,
STUPIDITY CANNOT!”
In our fight against infertility, we quite often encounter people whose prejudices about the subject in discussion amaze us or even shock us. Some of them even succeed in amusing us, in making us smile bitterly. We choose to consider that these opinions are the result of lack of knowledge and information.
We want to combat these misconceptions, we want to offer some answers to those who are lucky enough not to be affected by infertility.
We hope that these arguments will also be helpful to those couples who have recently found out that they are dealing with infertility and are at the beginning of their fight against this medical condition. We hope these will help them deal more easily with the judgments of those around them.
For those who have no fertility problems and who randomly visited our website, we have only one request: Don’t be the first to cast a stone!
Infertility occurs in about 15% of the couples, so statistically speaking you are surrounded by members of the larger family, friends or acquaintances who, most of the time suffer from this condition silently. Particularly for fear they may be judged, to avoid mean reactions or aberrations. Questions like “Why don’t you have a baby? Why are you selfish?” are really tormenting. Don’t be the first to cast a stone at those who do not have children! Maybe they cannot have them, for reasons that are independent of their will. Maybe they spend all their time, energy and money in fertility clinics. Do not think of this problem as something that can only happen to others. Our parents did not have fertility problems, we are the living proof; but it is not impossible that tomorrow even your children find out that they cannot make you proud grandparents even if it’s their most burning desire. Carefully read our article and try to understand. Infertility is a medical condition. A psychological drama difficult to imagine before you are confronted with it… However empathy and understanding help.
We will give arguments against the following misconceptions, aberrations and hasty judgments:
- The illiterate confusion between infertility and impotence.
- Human assisted reproduction is a eugenic practice.
- Children conceived with the help of human assisted reproduction are handicapped/ugly/stupid/aliens etc.
- Women who conceive with the help of human assisted reproduction techniques are “old hags”, sexagenarians etc.
- Those who use human assisted reproduction techniques/IVF are incredibly selfish people who don’t take adoption into consideration.
- Babies conceived by means of IVF are children that God does not want!
- IVF is a “multiple abortion practice” [sic!]
- Infertility is not a medical condition- it is a whim, IVF is compared to plastic surgery.
ARGUMENTS AGAINST:
1. Maybe one of the most common misconceptions is that infertility is synonymous with impotence. We were surprised to hear this belief from people who seemed educated, who seemed to have merely read the lessons from the 8th grade school book of anatomy.
However, it may need to be more explicit: infertility does not mean impotence! Infertility is the inability of a couple to conceive after 12 months of contraceptive-free intercourse, whereas impotence is the inability to perform sexually.
2. Another completely wrong idea is that human assisted reproduction is a eugenic practice (the enhancement of the human biological qualities through genetic practices)
I have very often heard: “she’s using IVF to have blue-eyed children” or “she’s using IVF to be able to choose the sex of the baby” etc. During the IVF procedures doctors only help the woman’s ovum be fertilized by the man’s sperm. Nothing more! As a result, embryos are created, which are not different in any way from those that are naturally conceived and which are implanted in the mother’s uterus. One cannot choose the sex of these embryos, and neither can they choose other genetic characteristics
A fertility clinic from the United States has recently announced that they are making an “offer” to couples (not to those who are dealing with fertility problems, but to those who want to have a baby in general). These people can select the genetic characteristics of their future child. We consider this to be an aberration, we declare ourselves firmly against such eugenic practices! We think that this is only a proof of the urgent need for a legislation that would regulate the field and would prevent exaggerations. We want a legislation that stipulates that in Romania the human assisted reproduction will only be used for the purpose for which it was initiated: to help couples with fertility problems.
3. Children conceived by means of human assisted reproduction are handicapped/ugly/stupid/aliens etc.
Yes, we have also heard this. On the one hand, we are accused of choosing the genetic characteristics of our child; on the other hand we are warned that we will have feeble‑minded children. We repeat: in the case of IVF, doctors only have the ovum fertilized by the sperm and implant the embryo in the mother’s uterus- nothing more! Children who are born through this procedure are no different than those conceived through natural fertilization- neither more beautiful nor uglier etc. The first baby conceived through IVF, Louise Brown, is a perfectly normal 31-year old person. Both she and her sister, Natalie, who was conceived through the same procedure four years later, are mothers of naturally-conceived children.
In the Western world of the 21st century, more than 2% of the babies annually born are conceived through human assisted reproduction, and studies have shown that there are no statistical differences between these children/adolescents and those conceived through natural fertilization.
4. Women who have to conceive with the help of human assisted reproduction techniques are “old hags”, sexagenarians etc.
We understand very well the cause of this perception, especially in Romania. The “case Adriana Iliescu”[1] has been largely debated. No, the large majority of women who try to have children through IVF are not “old hags”. We, the ones who write on this blog, are on average 31 years old and we have each been trying for some years to have a baby (some of us have even succeeded). Indeed, age-related factors can constitute one of the causes of infertility but unfortunately there is no lower age limit that could guarantee fertility. You can find out that you are infertile at 18. Or you can be the unlucky one to have to go through ectopic pregnancies that leave you without the Fallopian tubes and therefore without any possibility of having a natural pregnancy although theoretically you are perfectly capable of giving life, except for the tubal blockage.
We state that precisely a law in this domain would prevent exaggerations, since the European legislation usually stipulates the upper age up to which women are eligible for a human assisted reproductive procedure. This usually corresponds to the limit of natural reproductive age (43-45 years old).
5. Those who use human assisted reproduction techniques/IVF are incredibly selfish people who don’t take adoption into consideration.
IVF and adoption do not exclude each other; sometimes they even follow one after the other. We are not against adoption. On the contrary! However, we ask not to be denied the right to try to have a biological child. Again: Don’t be the first to cast a stone!
6. Babies conceived through IVF are children that God does not recognize. (!!)
Yes, we have also heard this. Infertility is a medical condition; IVF is one of its treatments, so children born through assisted reproduction are a victory of this condition, in other words a cure. A cardiac patient is never told not to treat his illness because “that’s God’s wish”, why should a person with fertility problems have to deal with this?! If these children are born it is because God wanted them to be born. We’ll stop here before it gets ridiculous.
7. IVF is a “multiple abortion practice” [sic!]
We were shocked to receive messages from Christian-Orthodox groups that stated that IVF is a “multiple abortion” (sic!!) because there are embryos that die in the IVF process.
We state the following (parts of the reply sent to these messages): In natural pregnancies there is a 20-25 % chance of conception; therefore, in ¾ of the cases the ovum is not fertilized and… dies. There is a similar percentage when fertilization takes place in a test-tube! And this is only in the first stage. Then, 2-3 embryos are generated, and in the best of cases, 5-6. Usually, 2 are implanted (very rarely three and extremely rare is the case of a triple pregnancy). In case there are leftover embryos, these are frozen and preserved for future implantations. Those couples who have to undergo such treatments are those who want children very much and are very preoccupied by the well-being of their fetuses!
Going back to numbers and to the comparison with the natural conception. You probably did not know this, but the rate of miscarriages in the first trimester of pregnancy is 25%!! If we add the miscarriages that happen during the menstrual cycle (unknown pregnancies- which women think of as late menstrual period but which in fact is an implantation bleeding), the percentage is higher than 30. One out of three natural pregnancies is terminated through an unwanted abortion! Statistics show that the numbers in IVF pregnancies do not differ at all!
And once the woman is pregnant, an IVF pregnancy does not differ AT ALL from a natural pregnancy.
In conclusion: in the process of natural conceptions, “the losses”, the spontaneous abortions and the stops in evolution exist. What should we do about it, should we frown upon the natural conception?!
The only real problem is that of the embryonic reduction, which is indeed an abortion. However, IVF does not imply the embryonic reduction, which is a marginal, unwanted and regrettable circumstance. The embryonic reduction occurs only in the complicated and EXTREMELY RARE cases of triplet or + pregnancies and only when doctors decide that the life of the other fetus/fetuses and/or that of the mother is in danger. Nevertheless, no one “kills” embryos, and under no circumstances the parents, who really want these children.
8. Infertility is not a medical condition – it is a whim, IVF is compared to a plastic surgery.
…No comment. We find it very hard to formulate an answer to this, without getting angry. But yes, there are people who are capable of making such statements. We can only hope that they won’t be forced to find out to which extent the wish to have a child is a “whim” comparing to taking out one’s ribs to look slimmer.
[1] Adriana Iliescu became the world’s oldest woman to give birth at 66 in 2005.





























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